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JazzKicker
Orange Belt
Joined: 07 Aug 2017
Posts: 171
Location: NJ
Styles: Hapkido, JKD, TSD
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 9:20 am Post subject: Black belts welcome at your school? |
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How do you treat someone with prior experience who visits your school to ask about training?
I've been in both traditional and non-traditional martial arts for many years, and from time to time I've looked around for a new school.
What I've found is, the non-traditional clubs- JKD, boxing, MMA, combatives, are happy to show me around, have me come train. No attitude or suspicion.
But visiting commercial, traditional clubs (like my old TSD org, or TKD), once they ask about my experience, it becomes clear I'm not welcome, it's not the place for me. |
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MatsuShinshii
Black Belt
Joined: 15 Aug 2016
Posts: 1423
Location: Kentucky
Styles: Machimura Suidi Rokudan, Ryukyu Kenpo, Kobudo, Judo
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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I welcome BB’s to watch classes however if they decide to join their belt is replaced with a white one.
I imagine that you’re having difficulty based on one of a few reasons. They feel you will come into class with your own ideas and would be harder to train their way than someone with a little experience or someone with no experience at all. They don’t have confidence in what they teach or are afraid of being exposed as a fraud (McDojo). Or it may be because they don’t want to have the discussion about wearing your current grade and just ignore you so they don’t have to.
My experience is opposite of yours. 90 or more percent of my training is in traditional arts. I have always been welcomed and experienced eagerness to teach me their art.
Maybe start the conversation with the fact that you’re a BB in another art. Then
explain that you’re interested in learning another art. If you’ve held this tid bit out until later in the conversation they may feel you have ulterior motives or have something to hide.
Other than that I can’t imagine not welcoming a new student no matter the grade. _________________ The person who succeeds is not the one who holds back, fearing failure, nor the one who never fails-but the one who moves on in spite of failure.
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JazzKicker
Orange Belt
Joined: 07 Aug 2017
Posts: 171
Location: NJ
Styles: Hapkido, JKD, TSD
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 1:51 pm Post subject: |
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When I've had this experience at a traditional school, it was (with one exception) in the same style. I think some of the points you made are valid, though. I also think in the traditional environment there's concerns about hierarchy, loyalty, and organizational politics. |
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Tempest
Green Belt
Joined: 31 Aug 2006
Posts: 424
Location: Dallas
Styles: Judo, HEMA
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 1:55 pm Post subject: |
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Depends on what your black belt is in.
Being a black belt in TSD does not convey any particular skills in Judo or BJJ.
It is useful for me to know of your prior experience so when I am teaching you, I can often relate the techniques to something you may be familiar with, BUT the skills are not directly transferable between arts that way. _________________ Think first, act second, and stop getting the two confused. |
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MatsuShinshii
Black Belt
Joined: 15 Aug 2016
Posts: 1423
Location: Kentucky
Styles: Machimura Suidi Rokudan, Ryukyu Kenpo, Kobudo, Judo
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 3:19 pm Post subject: |
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JazzKicker wrote: |
When I've had this experience at a traditional school, it was (with one exception) in the same style. I think some of the points you made are valid, though. I also think in the traditional environment there's concerns about hierarchy, loyalty, and organizational politics. |
In this case it's most likely politics. Many instructors veer a bit from the organization's curriculum for one reason or another. Maybe for very good reasons. This sometimes posses an issue when BB's from other schools ask to join in. In the back of their minds they don't know if you're sincere or checking up on them. This and after years of teaching you get tired of explaining yourself to BB's from other schools that presume they know better and that their way is always better.
Having dealt with similar circumstances I can appreciate their outlook. I once had a gentleman that was a grade higher than me (in a different art) constantly question and try to correct me. This was merely based on his way of doing things and how he was taught and I realized this. Even still after a few months it got really old, really quick. As teachers we try to not let one instance sour us but as humans there is only so much patience a person has.
We ended up getting over the hump so to speak and this constant barrage of questioning ended but if this happened often enough I could see myself getting to the point of showing others to the door rather than giving them the opportunity to avoid the frustration.
Ego is often the culprit. _________________ The person who succeeds is not the one who holds back, fearing failure, nor the one who never fails-but the one who moves on in spite of failure.
Charles R. Swindoll |
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OneKickWonder
Purple Belt
Joined: 17 Feb 2018
Posts: 513
Styles: Tang soo do
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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I've experienced the opposite problem.
I have my main style, but I also like to go and get a different perspective or some different skills entirely from elsewhere from time to time.
I always tell any new instructor of my main experience, right from the outset, just purely in the interest of openness and honesty, and I also tell them I'm a complete beginner in their style.
Yet time and time again, I hear things like 'but you'll know this already', 'I don't need to explain this to you' etc. Which I find frustrating, because if I did already know this, or I didn't need it explaining, then I wouldn't be there. |
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sensei8
KF Sensei
Joined: 23 Feb 2008
Posts: 16386
Location: Las Vegas, NV
Styles: Shindokan Saitou-ryu [Shuri-te/Okinawa-te based]
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Posted: Fri May 04, 2018 5:21 pm Post subject: |
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With zero experience with Shindokan, and they want to learn Shindokan, and no matter their rank somewhere else, they're white belts, and I treat them accordingly!!
_________________ **Proof is on the floor!!! |
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Spartacus Maximus
Black Belt
Joined: 01 Jun 2014
Posts: 1901
Styles: Shorin ryu
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Posted: Sun May 06, 2018 4:52 am Post subject: |
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Try going from teacher to teacher in the exact same system. The two may well teach the same thing on the surface , but that is as far as it goes. Prior experience or not black belt means very little to an instructor who hasn’t had the time to evaluate one’s level of skill. This is from personal experience training in nothing but the same Shorin ryu system.
Everyone and anyone is treated with the same courtesy, respect and hospitality, provided that the newcomer or visitors comes with the intention to learn what the instructor teaches, and an open mind. It all depends on the attitude of the person.
When visiting a school one must be willing to set aside prior experience. If one has the intention of becoming a serious student there, then one must be able to forget it and accept learning new skills as a novice. |
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Lupin1
Black Belt
Joined: 15 Dec 2009
Posts: 1637
Location: Naples, FL
Styles: Isshinryu
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Posted: Sun May 06, 2018 7:45 am Post subject: |
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If they're Isshinryu, I'm guessing they can keep their belt, though they will have to learn all the "extra" kata we do at our school. If they're from a different style, it depends. If they're just visiting, they can wear their black belt. If they plan on training with us long term, they have to start at white belt, though they'll most likely advance much faster than normal. |
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tallgeese
Black Belt
Joined: 04 May 2008
Posts: 6879
Location: McHenry County, IL
Styles: Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Bujin Bugei Jutsu, Gokei Ryu Kempo Jutsu, MMA, Shootfighting, boxing, kickboxing, JKD, Pekiti Tersia Kali
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2018 11:45 am Post subject: Re: Black belts welcome at your school? |
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JazzKicker wrote: |
How do you treat someone with prior experience who visits your school to ask about training?
I've been in both traditional and non-traditional martial arts for many years, and from time to time I've looked around for a new school.
What I've found is, the non-traditional clubs- JKD, boxing, MMA, combatives, are happy to show me around, have me come train. No attitude or suspicion.
But visiting commercial, traditional clubs (like my old TSD org, or TKD), once they ask about my experience, it becomes clear I'm not welcome, it's not the place for me. |
BBs are always welcome to stop by and check us out. Visiting BBs are treated according to their rank.
Now if they are looking to train full time it's a different discussion. A BJJ BB is what it is. They come in as is. Ranking in any other system isn't the same, so they go to the white belt. But again, visitors aren't held to this standard.
I roll with all the visitors that come in. If they aren't ranked in BJJ I want to give them an idea of etiquette. If they are it's important for me for them to know I'm not ducking them or trying to bury them. It's just a roll. I want to set the tone.
I've had guys that have stopped (ranked to BB in BJJ) by that can beat me, and guys I can beat, and a vast number of them that we go to draw. What I want them to know is I'm not concerned with it. It's worked out well to date. _________________ http://alphajiujitsu.com/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJhRVuwbm__LwXPvFMReMww |
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