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mmljpp
Orange Belt
Joined: 22 Jan 2008
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Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 12:57 am Post subject: girl out of my old martial arts class |
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well there is this girl i used to train with in my old martial art but i still like her i know her outside of karate too should i go for her i am in a new martial art and everything i just dont know what to do |
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NewEnglands_KyoSa
Pre-Black Belt
Joined: 14 Jan 2008
Posts: 907
Location: New England
Styles: Moo Duk Kwan Tang Soo Do , Chinese Kempo
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Posted: Sat Feb 02, 2008 10:21 am Post subject: |
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as long as its in both of your best interests and it won't mess with your MAs go for it. and good luck! _________________ "Smile. Show everyone that today you're stronger than you were yesterday." |
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mmljpp
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Joined: 22 Jan 2008
Posts: 110
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Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 9:30 pm Post subject: |
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thanks much |
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NewEnglands_KyoSa
Pre-Black Belt
Joined: 14 Jan 2008
Posts: 907
Location: New England
Styles: Moo Duk Kwan Tang Soo Do , Chinese Kempo
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Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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anytime... _________________ "Smile. Show everyone that today you're stronger than you were yesterday." |
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bushido_man96
KF Sensei
Joined: 31 Mar 2006
Posts: 30188
Location: Hays, KS
Styles: Taekwondo, Combat Hapkido, Aikido, GRACIE, Police Krav Maga, SPEAR
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 11:09 am Post subject: |
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This can be tricky. I would never tell anyone that they can't date because they are fellow students; it just doesn't work out well. I had that policy once, but pitched it.
Now, keep in mind that if you get started, and things don't work out, then it may be weird for one or both of you to still go to the same MA school. Keep this in mind. If you break up, will one or both of you end up quitting?
With all that said, I met my wife at my TKD class. _________________ www.haysgym.com
http://www.sunyis.com/
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AikiGuy
Orange Belt
Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Posts: 192
Location: Ohio
Styles: . Aikijutsu, . Goshin Jutsu Karate
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 4:08 pm Post subject: |
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Don't get too hung up on the fact that you are new to this art. I don't think it should matter at all. Actually, it might help. Assuming this girl has more training than you, you can ask if she still trains then ask her to help you brush up a bit. It will give you a chance to see how she reacts to you outside of class without telling her everything. _________________ Paranoia is not a fault. It is clarity of the world around us. |
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mmljpp
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Joined: 22 Jan 2008
Posts: 110
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 10:15 pm Post subject: |
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she is a black belt |
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joesteph
Black Belt
Joined: 11 Aug 2008
Posts: 2753
Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 2:18 pm Post subject: Re: girl out of my old martial arts class |
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mmljpp wrote: |
well there is this girl i used to train with in my old martial art but i still like her i know her outside of karate too should i go for her i am in a new martial art and everything i just dont know what to do |
I was looking over older postings and found this one from February.
Well? What happened? Did you ask her out?
You can't leave us all hanging like this!
_________________ ~ Joe
Vee Arnis Jitsu/JuJitsu |
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tenshinka
Orange Belt
Joined: 09 Aug 2008
Posts: 137
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 2:43 pm Post subject: |
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Really...Is This Thread For Real? |
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Throwdown0850
Brown Belt
Joined: 16 Feb 2008
Posts: 701
Styles: Judo, BJJ, Uechi Ryu
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Posted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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tenshinka wrote: |
Really...Is This Thread For Real? |
what is that supposed to mean? _________________ You must become more than just a man in the mind of your opponent. -Henri Ducard |
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