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bushido_man96
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Joined: 31 Mar 2006
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Styles: Taekwondo, Combat Hapkido, Aikido, GRACIE

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2021 4:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

DWx wrote:
Spartacus Maximus wrote:
Too many parents seem to forget one of the most important things about being a parent, which is learning to let go while being supportive. Especially when it comes to dealing with education or any other thing where someone other than them has the leading role.

It is also unfortunate that many teachers, coaches and instructors are either too kind or lack the assurance to remind parents to accept that they must let the teacher teach. Leave the instruction to the instructor and the coaching to the coaches. That takes trust and there must be a good relationship of trust and understanding otherwise nothing can begin. If there is no trust or if the parents do not approve or find issues with the people in whose care they put their children, they must take them elsewhere to somebody whose philosophy and methods they agree with.

Great points Spartacus

It's a fine line as you want parents to be engaged and involved with their child's learning, but if it goes too far the other way you get parents who couldn't care less and just treat it as daycare.


A helpful tactic might be to: 1, make sure the parents understand to not participate in the classes, and 2, talk to these active parents after classes, and give them a list of a few things to have the student work on at home, complete with cues of what to work on in the techniques. They get to help, and hopefully leave your class time to you.
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