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Anbu Alex
Green Belt
Joined: 29 Jun 2005
Posts: 443
Location: From the villiage hidden in the broo-lyn
Styles: Bujinkan Taijutsu
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 4:03 pm Post subject: Resentment abot someone becoming a black belt |
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Ok last month i was promoted while in japan to shodan but when i got back there were people who resented me because i got to BB before themi mean i dont rub it in ppls faces at all i wanna know what ppl suggestions are to deal with this problem _________________ White belt for life
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ddavis
White Belt
Joined: 30 Nov 2005
Posts: 19
Styles: Hayashi Ha Shito-Ryu
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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Anbu Alex,
You have no control over how other people feel about you abtaining the rank of Black Belt. Keep traininig hard, let that be your response. I remember what my Sensei told me when I got my BB, he said "The man of Tao when getting his Black Belt, carefully put it in his bag and walked home. He did not stop to speak to anyone."
It does not matter what anyone feels, it matters how you react. _________________ David Davis
Just because you like my stuff doesn't mean I owe you anything.
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ninjanurse
KF VIP
Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Posts: 6154
Location: Upstate NY
Styles: TKD;Shotokan;JuJitsu;Tai Ji
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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Sounds like they are not ready anyway so don't let it bother you.
_________________ "A Black Belt is only the beginning."
Heidi-A student of the arts
Tae Kwon Do,Shotokan,Ju Jitsu,Modern Arnis
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Blitz
White Belt
Joined: 05 Dec 2005
Posts: 17
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 12:30 am Post subject: |
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Ignore it. Everyone advances at there own pace its not your fault they havent earned it. |
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DragonMike
Blue Belt
Joined: 19 Jul 2005
Posts: 288
Location: Indianapolis
Styles: Tang Soo Do
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 1:34 am Post subject: |
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If you continue to to train hard you will show them that you have earned it. If they do not eventually respect your abilities, then their respect is incosequential anyway. _________________ 5th Dan Tang Soo Do |
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Anbu Alex
Green Belt
Joined: 29 Jun 2005
Posts: 443
Location: From the villiage hidden in the broo-lyn
Styles: Bujinkan Taijutsu
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 1:08 pm Post subject: |
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thanks you guys are all right ima just gonna train 3x if not more harder _________________ White belt for life
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ramymensa
Black Belt
Joined: 12 Aug 2002
Posts: 1450
Location: New Jersey
Styles: Shotokan
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 1:27 pm Post subject: |
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First congratulations
Second .. let them bad mouth you. Just do your stuff and prove to yourself you're worhty. there are always people who'll envy you _________________ World Shotokan Karate |
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orion82698
Brown Belt
Joined: 04 Jan 2005
Posts: 707
Location: Gym
Styles: Barking Spider
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 2:34 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with everyone. Congrats! _________________ I don't have to be the best, just better than you!
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shogeri
Brown Belt
Joined: 16 Jun 2005
Posts: 663
Styles: Instructor in Internal, External, Mixed Styles
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Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 2:47 pm Post subject: |
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Congratulations!
Your abilities, skills, talents, devotion, and passion will definitely be noticed as time goes by, for they tend to speak for themself.
If people cannot respect such, then it is their loss.
Keep up your training!
_________________ Current:Head Instructor - ShoNaibuDo - TCM/Taijiquan/Chinese Boxing Instructor
Past:TKD ~ 1st Dan, Goju Ryu ~ Trained up 2nd Dan - Brown belt 1 stripe, Kickboxing (Muay Thai) & Jujutsu Instructor
Be at peace, and share peace with others... |
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Anbu Alex
Green Belt
Joined: 29 Jun 2005
Posts: 443
Location: From the villiage hidden in the broo-lyn
Styles: Bujinkan Taijutsu
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Posted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 12:17 pm Post subject: |
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What im finding amazing is that all the black belts are like working hard to get me up to speed on everything and techs _________________ White belt for life
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