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Goju_boi
Black Belt
Joined: 28 Mar 2005
Posts: 2129
Location: Houston , Texas
Styles: Goju ryu , Kobudo , and just started Capoeira
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Something like this happened to me, accept it went a very different way:
I'm in highschool..a freshmen, and another girl that I didn't know was always hitting me and doing obscene things like spitting water on me.
I told my dad, he just said stop being a wuss. (figures)
So I decided to try a little reverse psycology, everytime she did something mean, and said she didn't like me, I just said "The more dislike me, the more I like you."
What do you know, she's my girlfriend now.
P.S. Very nice story, correlates to my signature in a way. |
lol, much props 
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bushido_man96
KF Sensei
Joined: 31 Mar 2006
Posts: 30188
Location: Hays, KS
Styles: Taekwondo, Combat Hapkido, Aikido, GRACIE, Police Krav Maga, SPEAR
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I know this is old, but I enjoyed reading it, and wanted to chime in...
Man, what an incident to have to deal with. I think that there were some very good things done here, especially in building the case to take to the police. Very good job there.
As far as when things started getting physical, I'm not sure how I would have dealt with that. Especially when it comes to getting hit and kicked. Some kind of restraint would have been in order, and it was good that he had a friend to help him out there.
Something that really bugs me here is that the driver didn't do anything to take control of the situation. It is not something that he should do while driving, but the driver should have done something. Stop the bus, radio his dispatch, or do something to get that troublesome kid off the bus.
Its nice to see how this situation was handled, from top to bottom, and nice to see that it appeared to be resolved between the two youngsters.
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Kodakmint
Orange Belt
Joined: 15 Jan 2012
Posts: 132
Styles: American Freestyle Karate
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| Great article. Good to know he took the high road. |
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shinka
Orange Belt
Joined: 12 Aug 2012
Posts: 100
Location: Canada
Styles: Hoshinkido Hapkido, Genbukan Ninjutsu
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2012 8:54 pm Post subject: |
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I'm very very late but...Good article. Amazing self control. Good job
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barrypardue
Orange Belt
Joined: 25 Mar 2013
Posts: 102
Location: Mississippi
Styles: Shotokan Karate, Judo
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Great article!!! THANKS!!!!
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Bsal1981
White Belt
Joined: 03 Jul 2013
Posts: 10
Location: Kathmandu
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| Such similar cases usually occurs when one has the negativity inside, the important thing that should be notice here is that, there should not be any kind of weaknesses or fault on behalf of your side and let the two or more people stand in this case and help to get solve it thereafter. |
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yamesu
Black Belt
Joined: 13 Jul 2004
Posts: 1391
Location: Oceania <-> Asia
Styles: Kyokushin. MT. Arnis. Judo. JediMantre.
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I know this is old, but I enjoyed reading it, and wanted to chime in...
Man, what an incident to have to deal with. I think that there were some very good things done here, especially in building the case to take to the police. Very good job there.
As far as when things started getting physical, I'm not sure how I would have dealt with that. Especially when it comes to getting hit and kicked. Some kind of restraint would have been in order, and it was good that he had a friend to help him out there.
Something that really bugs me here is that the driver didn't do anything to take control of the situation. It is not something that he should do while driving, but the driver should have done something. Stop the bus, radio his dispatch, or do something to get that troublesome kid off the bus.
Its nice to see how this situation was handled, from top to bottom, and nice to see that it appeared to be resolved between the two youngsters. |
I agree. The driver should have done something at least. Man, when I was in high school, our bus drivers would have stopped and kicked us off the bus quick smart for this type of thing!!!
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| Ace2021 wrote: |
Something like this happened to me, accept it went a very different way:
I'm in highschool..a freshmen, and another girl that I didn't know was always hitting me and doing obscene things like spitting water on me.
I told my dad, he just said stop being a wuss. (figures)
So I decided to try a little reverse psycology, everytime she did something mean, and said she didn't like me, I just said "The more dislike me, the more I like you."
What do you know, she's my girlfriend now.
P.S. Very nice story, correlates to my signature in a way. |
lol, much props |
Haha!
I was actually going to say that often, this kind of thing can be a sign of shielded affection!
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